If You Notice These Signs, Do Not Marry Her

If You Notice These Signs, Do Not Marry Her

When you start looking for a lifelong commitment with a woman, you have to ensure you make your wise choices as marriages are meant to be forever.The first thing to do is to find out if the woman has two or more of these traits mentioned below, if yes, you should start thinking twice, do not ignore the red flags and stay blinded by lust or pity You need to marry the best match for you. This should be a woman who will always “have your back” and that you can count on in good times and in bad.

Getting married to someone is one of the biggest decisions of your life.

The best thing to do is to make that decision very carefully.

If you’re not being wise,You can end up being with the wrong person. Unlike breakups, divorces are not easy. It involves not only emotional stress but also financial and legal issues, if children are involved, it gets messier than it should. So it is always best to make sure you are marrying the right person.

Marriage is a very serious commitment but, some people always ignore the red flags in their partners and stay blinded by lust or fear. You need to marry the best person for you. This should be a woman who will always “have your back” and that you can count on in good times and in bad.

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Here are the kinds of women you should think twice about before marrying:

The one who lies often

Everybody lies, yes. But if If your girlfriend consistently lies about things, even unnecessary things that she could easily tell the truth about but lies about them anyway, then you should think ten times before you plan to get married to her. You don to want to be in a marriage where you are constantly being lied to. And you will end up not believing anything she says eventually because you’ve lost your trust in her.

The controlling woman.

She is bossy and domineering. She makes all the decisions and tries to beats you down when you try to assert yourself. She wants to decide where you go on dates and who you go with. She could be isolating you from your friends and you might start to feel her child or pet. And when you complain she tries to guilt trip you and makes you believe she Is doing what is best for the relationship . Eventually she will lose all respect for you and see you as spineless.

The materialistic baby

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Well, there is nothing really wrong in wanting materialistic things. Evertbody loves to be spoiled. However if a girl is with you only because you shower her with gifts, and she doesn’t even reciprocate the favour, then maybe it is time you think about where you want to take this relationship to. If your girl constantly talks about getting her gifts, vacations, shopping for her, taking her out to fancy dinners and is never available when you need her emotionally, then this is the type that sees you solely as an atm machine. You will be drained in the first year of marriage.

Jealous and borderline paranoid lady

Truly, no woman wants to share her man with another lady. but it could be more problematic when she is suspicious about everything and anything even when there is nothing ti be jealous about

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 Not only is being too jealous is an unpleasant experience, but being too jealous or overly suspicious will make this woman to misinterpret what is happening and may take what is a normal event and change it into what she thinks. She fights you about an imaginary side chick and even goes to a point of believing herself even when she created the whole thing inside her head

The obsessive lover

This woman is very difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he is flattered and likes the fact that she is very into him, but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by her. She calls him 50 times a day non stop, she is jealous, toxic, guilt trips him and always snoops around. Every woman should always have something going on in her own life so that she will not just be waiting by the door for him to come home.

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