Popular relationship expert and entertainer, Blessing Nkiruka aka Blessing CEO has taken to her official social media handle to reveal that there’s a big difference between dating and marriage. In a short video, she noted that people don’t date other people to marry them.
Blessing said Dating is to know more about the person and not to marry him or her. She said not everyone that knows where one is living is allowed to enter one’s house.
Citing an example, she said sometimes, when one is heading to a particular destination and can’t figure out how to get there, one would call a bike man to take him or her to the destination. She affirms that one didn’t initially know his or her destination till the Bike man took one there.
Blessing affirms that the example she cited is the real definition of dating. She said dating is knowing more about a person or group of persons to decide whether to be with him or her, adding that it’s different from marriage.
Blessing further noted that people don’t date people to marry them, adding that they date to know them, build friendships and learn lessons.
Her caption reads, “Listen you don’t date people to marry them. You date a person to know them, build friendship and learn lessons. It’s not everybody that knows your house that must visit you”.
This post sparked reactions online as social media users agreed with her statement. A fan said, “I felt this”. Another fan said, “Funnily enough, I always tell my friends, I don’t date for marriage but for friendship”.